Safety

Safety tips for families

Most people here are sincere families looking for a good match. These simple habits keep everyone safe.

Never send money

No genuine family will ask for money, gifts, 'customs fees' or help with an emergency. If anyone does, stop, block and report them.

Look for the Verified badge. Ask to speak on a video call, and confirm details like work and family through people you know.

Let parents or elders join conversations early. Families talking to families is the safest — and the Kashmiri — way.

First meetings should be in a public place, during the day, with family members present. Tell someone where you're going.

Keep your home address, workplace and financial details private until you know the family well.

Choose who sees your photos in Settings. Never share a member's photos or number outside the site.

Pressure to move fast, stories that keep changing, refusing to video call, or asking you to move off the site straight away.

One tap from any profile. Reports are confidential and reviewed by our team.

Something doesn't feel right?

Report the profile from its page, or tell us directly. If you are in danger, call 112.